Rick Warren: Why God Sometimes Delays Answers to Your Prayers

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"Do not fear, Zechariah, for your prayer has been heard" (Luke 1:13b).

I heard a story once about a young girl who wrote a letter to a missionary, trying to encourage him and lend her support. Evidently, she'd been told not to request a response to her letter because the missionaries were very busy. So when the letter arrived, the missionary got a kick out of reading, "Dear Mr. Missionary, we are praying for you. But we are not expecting an answer."

I think that little girl unintentionally summarized the prayer lives of most Christians. We do a lot of praying, but we don't expect an answer. But we've got to change our attitude if we want to receive an answer from God!

First, we must be willing to let God answer in his own time. That means according to his schedule, his timetable—whenever God thinks is best.

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Sometimes I have a hard time believing God's going to answer my prayers. But if God ever sent an angel to meet me face-to-face and say, "Rick, I'm here to tell you that God has answered your prayer," I think I'd be convinced.

The Bible tells the story of Zechariah, who was very old and whose wife, Elizabeth, could not have children. The angel Gabriel visited him and said, "Do not fear, Zechariah, for your prayer has been heard" (Luke 1:13b). Gabriel went on to say that Elizabeth would give birth to a son who would eventually "make ready a people prepared for the Lord" (Luke 1:17d). Then Zechariah says in verse 18 (NIV), "How can I be sure of this?" He's the ultimate skeptic. Why didn't he believe it?

Because he had stopped praying that prayer years before. If you read the passage casually, it looks like, "He went into the temple. He prayed. And the angel came and said, 'Your prayer's been answered.'" The fact of the matter is, he had given up on this prayer years earlier. Yet God had heard Zechariah's cries. In fact, the tense of the word "heard" in this Scripture means it's already happened.

God answers our prayers immediately, but sometimes there's a delay in the giving of the gift. Why? Because he wants to change us first. God is more interested in making you mature than he is in making life easy. After you've learned the right attitude, then God's free to go to work on the problem.

Talk It Over

  • Describe your attitude toward prayer—and how your attitude has changed in the past year.
  • What promises can you claim from the Bible about your prayers?
  • How has God changed you when you've had to wait on his answer to prayer?

Rick Warren is the founding pastor of Saddleback Church. His book, The Purpose Driven Church, was named one of the 100 Christian books that changed the 20th century. He is also founder of pastors.com, a global internet community for pastors.

This article originally appeared at pastorrick.com.

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