This past weekend my oldest daughter, Margaret, quietly made history. She was ordained as a pastor at United Assembly, the church in Seneca, South Carolina, where her husband, Rick, has served as an associate pastor for several years. Margaret and another woman, Marly, are the first females to be ordained into pastoral ministry at this church.
As Margaret's father, I couldn't be prouder. I have watched her spiritual anointing develop since she was a little girl. But I'm also aware that the road won't be easy for her or for any woman who embraces the call to leadership.
Thankfully, Margaret's church is affiliated with a denomination (the Assemblies of God) that fully embraces the ordination of women. But there are hundreds of thousands of churches in 2017 that limit women's gifts by enforcing a spiritual glass ceiling that was actually shattered long ago on the day of Pentecost.
I've been a vocal advocate for women in ministry since my book 10 Lies the Church Tells Women was published 17 years ago. I have helped many pastors remove the traditional barriers to women, and I've encouraged countless women to fully embrace God's unique calling—even when this requires scary steps of faith into uncharted territory.
But here I will simply list three simple yet powerful reasons why it's imperative that we empower women as never before to step into their ministry callings.
- We need a woman's perspective in the pulpit. In New Testament times, the apostle Paul traveled with his colleagues Aquila and Priscilla. They helped lay the foundations of the early church, and in one scene in Acts 18:24-26, we see them instructing Apollos and launching him into ministry. Priscilla co-labored with Paul to build the first churches. She was not sidelined or silent. She was powerful and apostolic.
Paul was surrounded by women leaders who taught the Bible, prophesied, led churches, served as deacons and died as martyrs. Besides Priscilla, he mentions in his letters several female ministry companions including Chloe, Phoebe, Euodia, Syntyche, Junia, Nympha, Tryphaena, Tryphosa and Persis. Beyond that, the evangelist Philip had four daughters who were prophets (Acts 21:9), and John's second epistle is addressed to a woman who led a congregation (2 John 1, 13).
If women had this level of influence in the first century—at a time when women were typically treated like property—how much freer should women be to preach today? If God's image is reflected in both male and female, as Genesis 1:26-28 tells us, why wouldn't we need both male and female to reveal His truth from the pulpit? If a healthy family needs both a father and a mother to provide nurture and instruction, doesn't the church also need spiritual fathers and mothers?
- Spiritual gifting is not tied to gender. In many evangelical churches today, women are told that their "role" is to serve as wife, mother and domestic servant—and that men have the "role" of leadership. Women are told that preaching, pastoring, teaching and even leading worship are "masculine" gifts, while "feminine" gifts consist of teaching children, prayer, cooking, cleaning and secretarial work. But this sexist view is rooted in macho pride, not in the Bible.
The Holy Spirit's gifts have nothing to do with gender. The Spirit distributes His gifts "as He wills" (1 Cor. 12:11b, NASB). The nine manifestations of the Spirit listed in 1 Corinthians 12 and the motivational gifts listed in Romans 12 have no reference to gender whatsoever. Women can heal the sick. Women can cast out demons. Women can show mercy. Women can preach and teach. We limit and grieve the Spirit when we tell Him who can and cannot function in His gifts!
- Certain battles won't be won without women's influence. There are many times in Scripture when a woman determined the outcome of a battle. Jael dealt the final blow against Sisera in Judges 4:21; the "certain woman" of Judges 9:53 crushed Abimelek's skull; and Esther stopped Haman's genocide plot. If women are supposed to sit on the sidelines while men do all the important work, why are these stories in the Bible?
The truth is that God calls both men and women into ministry. We need both Aquila and Priscilla to build a healthy church. We will continue to lose certain battles until women are trained, empowered and commissioned to engage the enemy.
A few weeks ago, I was in a church in Idaho listening to my daughter Margaret preach a sermon about fighting injustice. Her text was Psalm 45. As she shared passionately about why she adopted an African child and how she traveled to India to fight gender-based violence, I wept—not because my daughter was preaching, but because I could hear God's voice thundering out of the heart of a 31-year-old mother who cares about the poor and the mistreated. Sometimes it takes a woman to reflect God's heart.
J. Lee Grady was editor of Charisma for 11 years before he launched into full-time ministry in 2010. Today he directs The Mordecai Project, a Christian charitable organization that is taking the healing of Jesus to women and girls who suffer abuse and cultural oppression. Author of several books including 10 Lies the Church Tells Women, he has just released his newest book, Set My Heart on Fire, from Charisma House. You can follow him on Twitter at @LeeGrady or go to his website, themordecaiproject.org.