I felt prompted to do a search on the word "balance" in my small computer Bible to find scriptural backing for the message. The only reference given that contained the word was a verse in Proverbs, and that had to do with a scale--in other words, with weights and measures, not with the way we use our time.
What I found did not convince me that the preacher was right. I asked the Holy Spirit to show me the truth, and He replied, "The truth is that being wholehearted for God is the key to balance."
I looked up all the verses with the concept "whole heart" and found references throughout the Scriptures. The most significant was Matt. 22:37, which records what Jesus called the greatest commandment: "'Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind'" (NIV). According to the Word, God demands that we put Him first, not that we prioritize our lives so He gets "equal time."
Developing intense love for God requires turning away from the things of the world. We cannot fully embrace Him while we are holding onto other things. The goal is to be able to declare with the psalmist, "Earth has nothing I desire besides You!" (Ps. 73:25).
It's not easy to be wholehearted for God. The other demands of our lives press in on us and try to distract us. But I have found that if I purpose in my heart to put Him first, He will help me keep my focus.
During a season when I wanted to pray more, I asked God to give me opportunities. Whenever I sat down to read the paper or watch television, He would say, "You could be spending time with Me." It was amazing to see how much time I had for my spiritual life when I gave up unnecessary pursuits!
When we commit to putting God first, the other priorities in our lives will fall into their proper places. God will direct us by His Spirit as we learn and apply the principles in His Word. He is the one who gives us the priorities, and He will help us balance them correctly.
The important thing is to love God first and foremost. Then we will be motivated by our love to do what He desires us to do. We can't follow His commands or otherwise serve Him out of ourselves; we must be led by His Spirit so that, like Jesus, we will do only what we see the Father doing (see John 5:19).