Billy Hornsby is someone God brought into my life at just the right time to encourage me to be and achieve something I thought I couldn't do on my own.
About 10 years ago I had a dream to plant 2,000 churches in my lifetime. I had been a part of planting four churches, including the one I'm still in, Seacoast Church. And of the other three churches, two of them failed miserably. At about that time God brought this bigger-than-life, bald-headed Cajun into my life, named Billy Hornsby, and it changed my life forever.
I've learned from Billy the value of a friend. I've always longed for the type of friendship I've read about in the Bible—David and Jonathan, Ruth and Naomi, Paul and Timothy. Billy has been that kind of friend to me. He looked me in the eye over and over again and told me he loved me. It was uncomfortable for me at first, but Billy pressed in, and I desperately needed that. He even made me an honorary Cajun!
His Billyisms on relationships stick with you; like, the four words that diffuse anger in any relationship: "You might be right." There are others: "Let your subordinates shine"; "When you back someone into a corner let them out"; "Add value to every person you have responsibility for or a relationship with"; and "Don't ask a fat person if they've lost weight, because they haven't!"
I've also learned from Billy the value of having our treasure in heaven. I heard Billy say many times when he was thinking about life decisions or trying to convince the ARC board why we should believe in a church planter who was struggling somewhere: "Why would we leave all we know for something that we're unsure of? Because we live our lives these days for treasures in heaven."
I saw Billy live that. I often think I need to get a bracelet that says WWBD—What Would Billy Do?—because I want to be like him. I'm proud to say, more than anything else, that Billy Hornsby is my friend.
Lead Pastor, Seacoast Church
Mount Pleasant, S.C.